Wednesday, September 13, 2023

BEST PRACTICES


Dear All of Us,

And you sure are just that - 

ever so dear.

Here's hoping things go well 

for each and every.


In regard to how things go,

           a rather 

pivotal/practical/personal 

          question. 

Do we get ten miles ahead of 

the next fad/fashion,

angling to be 

"Chi Chi" sharp/successful?

Or do we hang back ten miles,

waiting to see how 

it all proves out

and be safe secure 

in an armored vehicle 

of caution?


Now, I don't own any vehicles 

other than a lightweight walker,

and I'm way too old 

to jump at anything.

But then I do want 

to keep moving

and stay abreast.

So, I guess 

I'm mostly middle man.


I go for the mantra:

   "Be not the first by whom 

    the new is tried, 

    nor the last by whom 

    the old is laid aside."

I'm not the first

in my neighborhood

to get the latest hula-hoop,

nor is our home 

completely furnished in great,

great, grandmother's furniture.


When it comes to 

our spiritual lives,

it's a major lift 

to have

       Proven

 BEST PRACTICES 

over the latest and 

hottest spirituality fads,

such as every morning

beginning prayer time 

by drinking eight glasses 

of celery juice 

spiked with paprika,

while standing 

completely naked,

mentally picturing

peaceful and flowing 

fields of flowers

and chanting 

   "UMMMMMMMM"

until we experience nirvana, 

                 or

need to head for the restroom.


Then again, it's important 

to leave behind practices

that are and need to be,

such as kneeling 

up straight

on a cold, hard floor,

for two hours

slowly praying 

a ten-page novena

to St. Flagelatio

after a dozen swips of

  The Discipline 

that sick, sordid,

supposedly ascetical,

 Cat and Nine Tails.


Hey, Reductio ad Absurdum

 sure helps makes the point! 


   Spiritually, 

      THE 

BEST PRACTICE

is not to have one

until we first have 

the best and right 

     attitude.

That means we turn off 

the flashlight of control,

      open wide 

the shutters of self

       and let 

  The Sun of Spirit

    shine/sparkle 

       as it will.

Most of us need to do this

every thirty seconds or so!!

We are just that much 

in the dark,

addicted to fussing with 

our flashlights of control.


Any spiritual practices 

are best if they are

appropriate to our

condition and potential.

An off the chart 

Myers Briggs  

extrovert does best with

a group/interactive retreat,

and certainly not an 

Ignatian thirty day 

silent one.

We happily high 

introverts do best 

the other way round.


Listening, deep and still

putting into practice what

         The Spirit 

          Shares

  is what it all comes to.

"The work of the Holy Spirit 

 in our lives is to reveal to us 

  the truth of our being 

  so that the way of

  our being can match it." 

     Wm. Paul Young

     

         So Some

    BEST PRACTICES

- soul soaking in 

  The Sacred Scriptures

- sitting on a park bench

  watching the birds and

  squirrels dance divine 

- meditation, gentle deep

- reading solid 

  spiritual authors

  such as 

       Joan Chichester

       Richard Rohr 

       Rob Bell

       Doroty Day

       Henri Nouwen

       Barbara Taylor Brown

       Thomas Merton 

       Frederich Buechner

       Evelyn Underhill

         among many 

- doing as Jesus counseled,

  go to our room alone, 

  close the door and

  pray to The Father -

  that "room" can be 

  one with a door, 

  it can be outdoors,

  but vey much

  just the two of us 

- that's got an active twin -

  soul listening/loving 

  speaks us forth in

      Lived Love 

    in extravagant 

    service and care

    particular to our 

    situation and competence

- wholehearted participation

  in a spiritual community - 

  the wisdom of folk religion

  proves positive -  

 "We don't go to heaven alone"

- listening to The Spirit

  leads us to see and share 

  our giftedness - 

  a living out of

          God Gift Given

           To Be Given

The Spiritual Gifts Inventory

          online from

   Discipleship Ministries

  United Methodist Church

    is free and quite good.

- Simplifying our lifestyle

  so as not to be tied down

  by stuff and busies.

  That way others can be 

  lifted up to sufficiency and 

  we can be set free,

       Present Centered

- Participating in retreats, 

  revivals, hymn sings,

  bible studies, 

  small group ministries, 

  e.g. Men's Spirituality, 

  outreach ministries,

  e.g. tutoring needful children 

- various devotional practices,

  e.g. Stations of the Cross,

  rosary - important not to get

  "thingy - clingy - culty"" 

   with them- 

   use only as a clear 

   means to pray.

 - fasting: from food, 

   social media, anything 

   that helps keep us from 

   the trap and tangle of

   unreal control and comfort.

- take counsel with a wise and 

  spiritual director, or a wise and 

  deeply spiritual acquaintance


A BIGGIE: 

  be where we are,

  be present to the present,

  be in the flow of now,

  be here,

  that's where God is,

  in the majesty and mess

  of the moment,

  be attuned, attentive, 

     Here and Now

    that's where we 

     "Practice the 

    Presence of God"

         

      The Presence 

   is always present.

   We need to be as well,

   present in The  Presence.

   If not, when we try 

   to activate some 

   spiritual "practice" 

   nothing real happens.

   It's like turning on 

   a computer 

   that is not connected 

   to the power source.

   Put another way, 

   be open, receptive, 

   and responsive to

     The Presence

   as and how it presents.

   God is in what's going on,

             all of it, 

   easy, hard, sweet, sour.

   We need to be also.

   Spiritually, we need to be 

   "Present to be accounted for."

   Being on the phone 

   and the computer

   while cooking supper

   means being out of touch 

   and missing in action.

   Absorbed and responsive

   to immediacy is the best of

        BEST PRACTES

    

As mentioned above,

before any particular practice

comes the going of control

and the opening to

        The Spirit

Then we are clear and clean,

         ready for

          SPIRIT- ual

    BEST PRACTICES

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or our umpteenth 

time together 

it's just plan 

WONDERFUL

that we all 

are together

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    Again and as always,

 great to be together here.

        All the best.

   See you next week.

        Love to all,

       John Frank

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