Sunday, January 6, 2019

COMPASSION

                                                        




                 FRIENDS,


AS WE END ONE STRETCH OF TIME

      AND START A NEW ONE


    WE DO WELL TO MEASURE 

      OUR TIME/LIFE MARCH.


                              

 THIS POSTING IS LONG AND HARD.
                         
               IT IS ABOUT THE

MEASURE OF OUR TIME/LIFE MARCH.

                IT IS ABOUT

         PERIL AND PROMISE.

                        .

                
          PLEASE CONSIDER IT.
                                                        
                    THANKS.
                                                        
                 JOHN FRANK
                               
                      *****
  





Hi There!
“Ya wanna start somethin?”
That’s a common
playground/bar challenge to fight.
Let’s flip it real and right.

“Ya wanna start somethin”
that will save people and place,
probably the only thing
that will save us as a people and
this our place in the universe?
That’s not a vague rhetorical question.
It’s a question of continence,
to say nothing of prospering.
The current degradation of
     society and planet
     rushes both to peril.


No, my name is not Orson Wells
and no this is not
“The War of the Worlds.”
It is, though, about a war on the world
and those who people it.
And I do mean to name it.
It is a world catastrophe
in the making.
More accurately,
it is a catastrophe
unmaking us as a people and
this our planet place.


Now, you really don’t want to read this.
Quite frankly,
I don’t really want to write this.
We both better.
Dodging what’s going on
between us people and
all around us only hastens disaster.
We need to know and name the problem.
We need to know and name the hope.


First the hope.
And hope there is.
All the perennial spiritual traditions
are one in naming that hope,
in naming what it takes
to save,heal and flourish as
people and planet.
The one world word that speaks
our singular hope is

                        
                   COMPASSION


Compassion means to be so one that we are one.
Compassion means to love to union.
Compassion means full bore care/share.
Compassion means to fully feel/experience together.



OK, what’s that look like 
out on the sweaty street of everyday life?
What is its weave and texture in the fabric 
of our everyday spiritual lives,
be they spun extraordinary to quite plain?


Well, let’s take a look at 
Dr. Jerry Rabinowitz,a warm,
friendly family practice physician in Pittsburgh.
He spent all kinds of time with his patients,
reduced payments for the poor,
even made house calls.
Back in the 80’s he cared for an HIV patient,
actually touched his body (and soul)
when other doctors wouldn’t even see,
much touch and treat, an HIV patient.
Saturday, October 27, 2018 
Dr. Rabinowitz was downstairs 
in the synagogue when he heard 
shots up in the sanctuary.
He ran to help those shot 
and was himself shot to death.
A compassionate Jew just like 
the compassionate Jew, Jesus.
Life for life.
Compassion woven extraordinary.



OK, something a little closer to home, you say?
A compassion textured to everyday life?
My mother cared for, coped with,
helped, danced around, 
a good man, but also 
a particularly difficult man,
a disturbed and disturbing man:
her husband, my father.
She saved a man and a family.
A life-long, right at home compassion.



OK, too tough? 
Want something less intense?
Checkout Ann.
She’s a nurse, a single woman,
and she volunteers 
to work every holiday
so other nurses can be home 
with their children.
Compassion woven into 
the work-a-day world.



Then there’s Bob.
He lives in a pleasant suburb.
Bob spends a lot more time 
than his neighbors caring for 
his lawn,shrubs and garden.
That’s because he refuses 
to use any kind of a supposed
"miracle grow" substance
that is toxic to people and place.
His "round up" of weeds 
is environmentally safe,
most often done by hand.
Ecological compassion.


Consider Martha, 
a home bound elderly woman.
She keeps up with the day’s news,
and responds to it with prayer.
While the caravan from Honduras
was on its way 
to the U.S./Mexico border
she learned of Javier 
while watching the news
and she spiritually adopted him.
He is sixteen and 
on his own in that caravan.
Martha took him to her heart.
She holds Javier
in loving prayer and concern every day.
Caring, prayerful compassion.


For what it’s worth, there’s me.
In no way do I here tout politics
right or left, red or blue.
That said, I say I am appalled,more,
frightened by much of what
increasing numbers of public leaders
and their followers say and do –
the crudity, dishonesty, injustice, violence,
of so sadly much of it.
Rather than rant and rage about it,
I again and again
– a lot of “again and again” –
prayerfully hold them in God’s love,
join in God’s love for them.
I also vote and purchase as close to
The Common Good as I know how to get.
I contact public officials
urging justice to people and place.
I speak out, not for partisan positions,
but for basic humanitarian and just policies.
I financially support social justice
and environmental groups.
It costs comfort and sometimes acceptance.
That’s a bit of this old man’s compassion.



 “Ya  wanna start somethin,”
in fact the only thing that
will save us as a people and
this our place in the universe?
Hopefully we all are committed
and busy at that right now.
In addition, let’s do so together
right here at “frankly speaking.”
Those of us sharing here weekly
come from 62 nations worldwide.
If we continue to commit to a
brotherhood/sisterhood,
                a
       “humanhood,”
               of
       compassion
we will be changed 
and we will change –
in both cases for the better.
This really is
 a matter of life or death,
of a dedication to life and being
in all their forms,
or settling for their demise.



So here’s what I ask and urge.
Attached at the end of this posting
are generous sharings 
of wisdom from our common
perennial spiritual traditions.
The say compassion
in all sorts of wondrous ways.
Let’s not commit 
their wisdom to The Cloud.
Rather, let us commit ourselves
to daily prayer and meditation
over their compassion wisdom
        -  lots and long –
a commitment that leads 
to working for justice,
justice for all 
people and all places!!
Let’s find ways to translate 
their wisdom words into
our attitude and practice.
Let’s see what’s threatening 
people and planet.
Then in our spheres 
and ways let’s see how
we can bring real, 
practical compassion
to our people and place.
Also, every day 
let’s consciously hold
each other in prayer,
in compassionate prayer,
in supportive prayer.
By our living,
and a bit by our words,
let’s invite others
to a life of compassion,
a compassion that
“loves to union”
people and place,
society and planet.
The alternative is
a shredding of society and
the demise of planet earth.



Let’s refuse to be 
intimidated or daunted
by the problem, the peril.
Yes, there’s pollution, 
demagogues, dictators, 
democracies collapsing, 
climate change,
aggressive nationalism, 
white and otherwise.
There’s the astrophysicist 
Stephen Hawkins telling us
we have reached 
the ecological tipping point
and have a hundred years 
before our plane is exhausted.
There’s economic cheating 
and manipulation,
civil liberties denied, hate radio,
nuclear warheads 
and war-heads of state
that can’t be trusted 
to head off an Armageddon,
incivility, starvation, 
slaughtering of innocents, injustice,
a media that finds it easy 
to broadcast and hard
to be real and truthful 
in the casting so broadly,
children maimed and abused in Yemen
(by some estimates 85,000 children
starved to death so far)
and in painfully plenty of other places,
truth perverted, racism, xenophobia
and, and, and…


When tempted to hide, to cave,
to capitulate, to despair,
let’s embrace the compassion of Jesus:
       
        “In the case of Jesus
         it was God’s feeling
         of compassion 
         that possessed him 
         and filled him.
         All his convictions, 
         his faith and hope
         were expressions of 
         this fundamental experience.
         If God is compassionate, 
         then goodness
         will triumph over evil, 
         the impossible will happen and
         there is hope for humankind.
         Faith and hope are the experience
         of compassion as a divine emotion.”
               Jesus Before Christianity
                      Albert Nolan
                      Orbis Books
                           1999



We do well to bring to mind and heart
what Jesus and a tiny band of disciples did
to begin a community of Love and Life,
and what The Spirit of Truth
can do through even little old us
right where we are.  



In our place, let’s be sure
to band and bond with people
ready to put flesh and practice 
to compassion,
people willing to stretch,
to touch and connect in compassion.
That could be:
   *consuming less and recycling more
   *praying for the Javiers of this world       
   *taking in a foster child
   *being active in advocacy groups that
    work for social and environmental justice
   *emulating the attitude and action
    of the Pittsburgh Moslems in caring for
    the violated members
    of the Jewish synagogue there in Pittsburgh
   *being patient with the local loud mouth
   *modifying our life style:
                    -  having a more modest 
                       and efficient car
                    -  forgoing an expensive vacation
                       for a simpler one,
                       contributing the difference
                       to an inner-city
                       after school care center
                    -  organizing a neighborhood co-op
                       to share tools, yard appliances,
                       and labor
     *fact check policies and practices of
      government, financial, media, 
      religious and corporate leaders – 
      post the findings to them and 
      on your preferred social media.
     *in conversation and comment -
      verbal, written, digital –
      communicating in the accent and tones of
           Ephesians 4:29:
                    
          “Do not let any unwholesome talk
           come out of your mouths,
           but only what is helpful
           for building up others
           according to their needs,
           that it might benefit
           those who listen.”




“Ya wanna start somethin”
something to save, 
to heal, and to open
us people and our place 
in the cosmos
to goodness without end?
Then let’s connect in a
        “humanhood”
                of            
       COMPASSION
here at “frankly speaking”
and right there where
we each find ourselves
here on planet earth.




Thanks for sticking with this long
        and straight up blog.
           Holding us all in
God’s Dear Compassionate Love,
            John Frank
                *****



                       
                    

                    COMPASSION
             THE PERENNIAL WISDOM

Let’s listen to what The Spirit says to our spirits
as we meditate and pray over
these varied articulations of compassion
from the treasury of our shared Perennial Tradition.
Then let The Spirit show us how
they can be incarnate, practical, actual and active
in our person, our people and our place.
                          *****





CHRISTIANITY
            
             “In everything do to others 
              as you would have them 
              do unto you…”
                          
                       ( Matthew 7:12 )


BAHA’I
             
              “It is your duty to be 
               exceedingly kind to every human being,
               and wish that person well; 
               to work for the upliftment of society…
               until you change the world of man 
               into the world of God.”
           
        ( Abdul-Baha: Selections From the Writings 
                        of Abdu’l-Baha, p.90 )


BUDDHISM
              
               “Rage is a powerful energy 
                that with diligent practice 
                can be transformed
                into fierce compassion. 
                However much we disagree 
                with our enemies,
                our task is to identify with them. 
                They too feel justified 
                in their point of view.”
                                
                            ( Buddha )


HINDUISM
             
              “What sort of religion can it be 
                without compassion?
                You need to show compassion
                to all living beings.
                Compassion is the root 
                of all religious faith.”
                
              ( Basavanna, Vachana 274 )


JAINISM
                             
              “Have benevolence towards 
               all living beings,
               joy at the sight of the virtuous,
               compassion and sympathy 
               for the afflicted,
               and tolerance towards 
               the indolent and ill-behaved.”
                                              
                  ( Tattvarthasutra 7.11 )


JUDAISM
                “What is hateful to you, 
                 do not do to your neighbor.
                 this is the whole Torah;
                 all the rest is commentary.
                 Go and learn it.”
                                             
              ( Hillel, Talmud, Shabbath 31a )


FIRST AMERICANS
                                
                 “Never criticize a man until
                  you’ve walked a mile
                  in his moccasins.”
                                   
                        ( Proverb )


SIKHISM
                                  
                “I am a stranger to no one;
                 no one is a stranger to me.
                 Indeed, I am a friend to all.”
               
               ( Guru Granth Sahib, p.1299 )


TAOISM
                                  
                “Regard your neighbor’s gain 
                 as your own gain
                 and your neighbor’s loss 
                 as your own loss.”
                                                 
           ( Lao Tzu, T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien, )


ZOROASTRIANISM
                                     
                 “Do not do to others 
                  whatever is injurious to yourself.”
                                                       
                   ( Shayast-na-Shayast 13.39 )


BUDDHISM
                                      
                  “Conquer anger by love.
                   Conquer evil by good.
                   Conquer the stingy by giving.
                   Conquer the liar by truth.”
                                          
                      ( Dhammapada 223 )




CHRISTIANITY
                                      
                    “Therefore, as God’s chosen people,
                      holy and dearly loved,
                      clothe yourselves 
                      with compassion,
                      kindness, humility, 
                      gentleness, and patience.
                      Bear with one another and
                      and if anyone has 
                      a complaint against another,
                      forgive each other;
                      just as the Lord has forgiven you,
                      so you must forgive.
                      Above all, cloth yourselves with love,
                      which binds everything together 
                      in perfect harmony.”
                                                               
                           ( Colossians 3:12-14 )


ISLAM
                                          
                       “Listen with ears of tolerance!
                        See through the eyes of compassion!
                        Speak with the language of love.”
                                                  
                             (  Rumi – Sufi Mystic )


BUDDHISM
                                           
                        “Radiate boundless love
                         towards the entire world –
                         above, below, and across –
                         unhindered, without ill will,
                         without enmity.”
                                                        
                              ( The Buddha )


HINDUISM
                                           
                        “One should not behave 
                         towards others
                         in a way which is 
                         disagreeable to oneself.
                         This is the essence of morality.
                         All other activities are due to selfish desire.”


JUDAISM
                                         
                         “Though the mountains be shaken
                           and the hills be removed,
                           yet my unfailing love for you
                           will not be shaken,
                           nor my covenant of peace be removed
                           says the Lord, who has compassion on you.”
                                                             
                                      ( Isaiah 54:10 )


Christianity
                                          
                            The Story of the Prodigal Son 
                                         and the
                               Compassionate Father.
                                                   
                                     ( Luke 15:11-32 )


A  CONTEMPORARY THOUGHT
                                         
                            “Compassion and caring 
                             are the ties
                             that bind us together
                             in mutual understanding
                             and the unified attempt
                             to uncover the Divinity 
                             in each other.
                             Compassion is the most gentle
                             of all human virtues,
                             for it is the outpouring of
                             Divine Givingness through all.”
                                                       
                                   ( Ernest Holmes )



    A CONTEMPORARY THOUGHT

                            “The necessary detachment 
                             from this ugly and injurious 
                             present political climate
                             depends upon 
                             our inner attachment
                             to the mystery 
                             of God’s unbounded
                             grace and divine, 
                             creative love.
                             That is the foundation 
                             from which we can 
                             witness to truth,
                             nurture community,
                             and build essential bonds 
                             of solidarity
                             with those who suffer.
                             More than ever, 
                             politics which offers redemptive hope
                             will begin with mysticism.”
                                         
                           (Richard Rohr, November 15, 2018 email,
                            Center for Action and Contemplation)
                                         -
                            Richard speaks of mysticism as  
                            an actual awareness/involvement/experience 
                            of/with God
                            as contrasted to just 
                            religious ideas and practices)
)
                                     
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 From the heart, welcome to those 
 new to our weekly gathering here.
 Thank you for the gift of your presence.
                 
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Friday, December 28, 2018

" WHAT'S A WORD FOR...?"



Dear All of Us


"What's a word for...?"

It could be playing Scrabble or Bananagrams.

It could be doing a crossword or Word Search Puzzle.

It could be penning a poem.

It could be composing a letter of recommendation.

It could be The Word For The Year.

          Major dictionary publishers

       just selected their choices for the

                        2018

                Word of the Year:

        Oxford Dictionary: "Toxic"

        Dictionary.com:      "Misinformation"

        Merriam-Webster:   "Justice"

        How bout dem apples, those words???




Whatever the setting, it is important

to get just the right word  because

"A word for...",

well for anything,

pegs its essence,

bespeaks the innerness,

the core of it.

It just that telling.




So, how about this?

You and I are a word for God,

an articulation of God

from our deepest innerness.

   "In him we live and move

       and have our being."

            Acts 17:28

Who we are, how we are,

is our saying of God,

our verbalizing,

our speaking in

person and practice,

   what's real,

             what's good,

                         what's actual.

In our own ways and place we are

   a personalized expression

                  of

            Emmanuel

       "God is with us."

   We bespeak The Reality

        spoken of as God.

       We "word" God

   in practical, daily life by:
 
              - our life style

              - our lived values

              - our choices

              - our work

              - our creativity

              - our care of

                people and place

              - our example

              - our centeredness

              - our immersion in

                The Love Who Is God

              - our relationships.

          No board or parlor game this!!

                Ever so much better

                we are a living word

              of recommendation for

                        Reality,

            a person poem speaking

                      Spirit.




All this does not require

    or even allow for a

       Word Search.

It is not some sort of good

  we have to struggle at

               or

         try to "do."

All that is required is that

  we simply allow the

      Good That Is

           God

to flow through our living,

for us to be in Being.

All we have to do

is give clear channel.




Now that's where the "doing,"

the struggle, does comes in.

Our False Self with its volumes

of phony articulations has to be

            reworded real.

     We have to give the lie

      to a culture of deceits.

We have to again and again accept

the speech therapy that is Truth.



   The strength and energy for this

              "God Wording"

         is our centeredness in

           
                THE WORD


  "In the beginning was the Word,

    and the Word was with God,

    and the Word was God.

    All things (there we are!)

    came into being through him,

    and without him not

    one thing came into being.

   What came into being in him was life,

   and the life was the light of all people.

   The light shines in the darkness,

   and the darkness did not overcome it...

   to all who received him,

   who believed in his name,

   he gave power

  (there's our energy source, our strength)

  to become children of of God ...

  And the Word became flesh

  and lived among us,

  and we have seen his glory,

  the glory as of a father's only son,

  full of grace and truth...

  From his fullness

  we have all received,

  grace upon grace."

(again, our strength and energy Source )

     John 1: 1-5, 12, 14, 16




    Our spiritual life out here

on the street of everyday living

     * is one of

        Truth Telling

           *is one of

                 Living the Word

                    *" is one of

                          Emmanuel.

We are asked to be

                 The "Word" For It.




A word is our innerness

expressed and shared.

Jesus is The Word of God,

     God's innerness

  expressed and shared.

   We are invited to be

    a word for God,

    God's innerness

 expressed and shared

 right where we are

 out here on the street

 of everyday living,

expressed and shared

in a living personal way -

     just like Jesus.







The Word Wonks'

word for 2018 were

       "toxic"

       "misinformation"

        "justice"

"WHAT'S A WORD FOR...?"

               2019

       What do we say?



        Holding us all in

          God's Word,

          John Frank

               ****

As we begin this new year

it is a happiness

to welcome those new

to our weekly sharing here.

This week we welcome participation

from Kosovo.

So good to connect.

Thank you for joining in.

Please do read

   WHAT'S GOING ON HERE

                   and

   CONSIDER YOUR SOURCE

       ( right column online )

     for a bit of orientation to

        "frankly speaking"

         spirituality for the street.

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Friday, December 21, 2018

LOVE ABORNING


                          ..
                


                                             CHRISTMAS 2018



Dear All Of Us,

Happily Love doesn’t wait for some sort 
of optimal time and circumstance
to come alive.
Love is way too vigorous for that.
Love came alive two thousand years ago 
in the midst of horrid corruption, chaos and conflict 
in occupied Israel.
Love is coming alive right now 
in the midst of horrid corruption, chaos and conflict
in our distressed time and place.
Love doesn’t duck or defer.
It’s way too vigorous for that.
Love aborned in Jesus.
Love abornes in you.

Thank God for Vigorous Lovers.
It’s so darn divine!!!
       

    John Frank
        
          *****


                          

Friday, December 14, 2018

HEART WRITE




                                               10 December 2018


Dear All of Us,

I don't know how it is with you,

but when I go to the doctor's

and have to strip naked,

I feel a lot more than chilly.

I feel vulnerable, exposed, scared.

It means more than dropping my pants.

It means dropping a lot of "covers" I use

to present and protect myself.

It's so private.

I only do it so that the doctor

can see me as I really am.





Well, I ask you to allow me

to bare myself to you,

to expose the most private part of me.

Actually, it's not at all a "part" of me.

It is me -  my core, center, heart.

I really do feel vulnerable, exposed, scared.

It's so private.

Often my sharing with you here

in this blog is quite personal,

but  never private.

This is private.

I only bear myself so you can see me

as I really am and I can then

share something wonderful with you

right from my bared core, center, heart.





For all my sin, conflict, confusion, falseness,

screw ups, missteps, at heart

                    I am in love.


                          I am

                     I am in I AM

                     I am in LOVE

               I AM WHO IS LOVE.


Please let this be what it is -

       LOVE WRITE

from me to you because

my heart is full

of joy and gratitude

and I sure as heaven want

to share that with you.



Look, you and I are out here

on the street of everyday living.

We want, oh do we want, to get life right.

For all our wrong turns,

dead and deadening ends,

detours, collisions and conflicts

we know there is a way to go,

a way to, well, we have a lot of names for it -

love, fullness, oneness, goodness,

happiness, enlightenment, The Ultimate,

Perfection, Reality, and most commonly, God.

But how??

What's the way to go??



As a boy,

after a chaotic few years,

I was gifted and graced, invited to

the way of contemplation.

My heart learned that

over time, with growth and grace,

contemplation takes us all the way

to mysticism and Oneness.




Thomas Merton (1915 - 1968 )

reintroduced contemplation to Western Christianity.

It had been fairly much lost for five hundred years.




As a fifteen year old my Spiritual Father,

Father Anthony Vivona, introduced me

to the way of contemplation

and to the writings of Thomas Merton

on the way of contemplation.

I took both to heart and fell in Love.





Today is the fiftieth anniversary

of Thomas Merton's death.

 I am flooded with feelings

of gratitude and joy,

thanks and happiness

for the contemplative way

he opened to me

and which continues

to open me wide, lover like,

to Love.




In a simple, quiet way I love all of us

who gather here weekly

at "frankly speaking"

and share our spirituality for the street,

our seeking the way to go.

So, on Thomas Merton's anniversary,

from my heart to yours,

here is a bit of his

                          
                 LOVE WRITE



"Contemplation is the highest expression

of man's intellectual and spiritual life.

It is that life itself, fully awake, fully active,

fully aware that it is alive. It is a spiritual wonder.

It is spontaneous awe at the sacredness of life, of being.

It is gratitude for life, for awareness and for being.

It is a vivid realization of the fact that life and being in us

proceed from an invisible, transcendent

and infinitely abundant Source. Contemplation is above all,

awareness of the reality of that Source. It knows the Source,

obscurely, inexplicably, but with a certitude that goes

both beyond reason and beyond simple faith."

                     New Seeds of Contemplation, p.1





"The contemplative life has nothing to tell you except

to reassure you and say that if you dare to penetrate

your own silence and dare to advance without fear

into the solitude of your own heart, and risk the sharing

of that solitude with the lonely other who seeks God

through you and with you, then you will truly recover

the light and the capacity to understand what is beyond words

and beyond explanation because it is too close to be explained:

it is the intimate union in the depths of your own heart,

of God's spirit and your own secret inmost self,

so that you and He are in truth One Spirit."

              The Monastic Journey, p.173


What a way.

What words.

Wonders to pray and ponder,

 to slowly savor

 in Thomas Merton's

         
     LOVE WRITE



Thank you for allowing me

to bare my soul and share.

I pray it encourages yours.

Yes and so " muchly,"

thank you for allowing me

to bare and share such a core blessing

with you in this little


               LOVE WRITE


               from me to you.

               heart to heart.

              Holding one and all

             In God's Dear Love,

                   John Frank

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PS: Just want to share with you

 that twice I have had

the privilege and joy of celebrating

The Eucharist with friends in

Thomas Merton's hermitage

out in the woods near the

Trappist Abbey of Gethsemani.

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Friday, December 7, 2018

WHAT




Hi There !

So, a bit back I posted the blog,
      
              QUOTE.
 
        (May 25, 2018 )

Well, I took my own advice,

selected a quote from the collection offered,

wrote it out on an index card

and carried it with me as suggested.

I spent a lot of time and soul with it,

and that way more than the recommended day.

                  It rocked me.
                  It saddened me.
                  It delighted me.
                  It opened me.
                  It confirmed me.
                  It settled me.
                  It challenged me.
                  It
                    "a lot"
                             me!!



Please allow me to share that powerful

 "a lot" quote with you,

the one that wouldn't leave me alone.

Doing so, I wonder what

it will do to you way down inside.

Frankly, I hope it will

            " a lot "

                    you !!




        
            " Please remember,

               it is what you are

               that heals,

               not what you know."

                                      Carl Jung




Do really take time and soul with that.

Stay with it awhile and let it stay with you.

See what it does to you

and what you will do with it.



Now, as for me, here's what it does.

As I look back at a long life

of ministry and in education,

I fall into the old man fantasy

of wishing I could redirect,

recompose wide swaths of both.

I missed the mark

so often and so much.

Yes, I worked hard and long,

brought all sorts of

professional competencies

to that work,

administered effectively,

got great reviews.

          Sadly though, the what I

                     "know"
       
            powered way too much

                   of what I did.

               I forgot that what we

                         "are"

          makes the critical difference,

        and I just left it in the back seat

           for far too much of the trip.

What I "know" was up front

doing most of the driving,

and not all that effectively.




As I survey my past,

I so wish what I am,

my personal incarnation

of what we all

       "are,"

was more genuine and real,

deeper, warmer, freer

as God gave it,

not limited by my cloudy,

ego harness.

So many looked to me

for "healing" of one sort or many,

and sadly too often

I gave them just diligent efficiency,

professionally presented.




Such an old age fantasy

and realization

chastens and humbles.

That's good.

But it's not good to stay there.

I need to recall that the

           what

     of who I am,

     my experience

    of what we all

          "are,"

 is  rooted in

The Love Who Is God.

For all my immaturity

and my self centered halter,

that Love flowed through the

       "what" of me

            and the

     the what I "know"

to the healing of many,

   and that in varied

   and multiple ways.

  Thanks be to God !!

.

So, for me it is

definitely a  mixed bag.




Here's another old man fantasy.

If I got to be a despot for a day,

a dear old benign one of course,

I would require that


        "Please remember,

         it is what you are

          that heals,

          not what you know"


be emblazoned over the doorway of every

       - birthing center

       - family home

       - school and university

       - seminary

       - church, synagogue, mosque, temple

       - political and social justice

         organization

       - counselor and mentor

       - preacher, teacher and spiritual guide.

I would also decree that any

in the helping professions with tattoos

would be required to have the quote inked

on their arm for ready and regular reference.




Now, just for the record, in no way

do I mean to denigrate or downplay

professionalism or the intellectual life

in the helping professions or right at home.

They are marvelous and helpful competencies

in the hands of a healer.

For all that, they don't heal.

It's "what you are" that heals.

Professional competencies are

as paints to an artist,

as rhythms and tones to a musician.

Sadly and too often today,

tool and technique

trump the genius that is healing.

Lots of paint,

                 no artist,

                            no masterpiece.

Lots of rhythms and tones,

                no musician,

                               no symphony.

It can go the other way as well.

It should also be remembered that

not everyone has all the "paints."

all the "rhythms and tones,"

to heal any or all.

There are people whom

we are not able to help or heal.

We just don't have

the requisite competencies

or chemistry.

When we can be a vehicle of healing, though,

 it is not what we know that heals.

It's what we are that heals

through what we know.




Please allow me to reference clergy

as an example of how

what you are heals, not what you know.

I've been a clergy person for over fifty years.

These days clergy journals, conferences, websites

abound in marketing techniques, demographics,

catchy to engaging worship media,

ever newer programs and pastoral strategies.

Tools like analytics become normative

rather than references for reflection.

Local church to "Denomination Central"

are being structured to the corporate model.

Clergy education is predominately academic.

All of the above certainly deserve

way more than a nod.

They are what clergy "know."

They are a toolbox.

As the standard fare,

the common core of pastoral ministry,

though, they are flaccid.

Much ado about way too much

that just isn't that much,

and certainly doesn't heal.

What heals is way deeper,

requires a lot more of us.

It requires the hard work

of getting out of the way,

of not playing God,

of giving way to God,

accepting intimate absorption in

    The Love Who Is God.

Healing comes through a person

immersed in the flow of divine love.

That divine love is personalized,

humanized, touches,

through one awash in it.

It heals.

Honestly, I'm not a cranky old man.

I am a concerned old man.

We clergy don't

"Need to get religion."

We've got way too much of that already.

We clergy need  to get past devotional religion

and reliance on organization and technique.

We clergy need real and robust union

with God, Spirit to spirit.

We clergy need to get in bed with God.



The situation of clergy replicates

in parenting, education, counseling -

all the helping, healing vocations.

Our society has all sorts of systems,

protocols, procedures, expertise, competencies.

It's like a beautiful body.

It just needs soul.

Sad to say,

a body without soul

is a corpse.



Happily, fortunately, there are

wonderfully in love,

spirited souls  among us.

Real healers.

Please permit a personal example.

I had a terrible time when puberty hit,

and I didn't keep it to myself.

I made things quite terrible for others.

Every week, though,

I had time with my pastor,

Father Joe Sheehan.

He was an athlete, an intellectual,

a man's man, a deeply spiritual man.

He knew a lot.

He was a lot,

a lot more than he knew.

He was centered in

The Love Who Is God.

Being in the flow,

healing flowed from him.

He cared about me.

He believed in me.

He listened to me,

and that with

way more than ears.

He saw soul.

I let him into my troubled soul

and he went there with his.

The realness, the steadiness,

the centeredness, the strength,

the presence of God

that was at his core

cared about me, flowed into me.

A way too hookie metaphor would be

that his caring connected

the way jumper cables do and

the energy, the juice, the charge,

the voltage in him,

the Reality at his center,

jolted me, jump started me to aliveness.

What Father Sheehan was way down deep

powered a healing in me.

He gave me great counsel.

He gave me way more.

He gave what he was.

That powered me so that

I could live out

the counsel he gave.

He was way more than a tactician.

He was in the flow of Divine Love,

of grace and it graced me,

it flowed into me.

It healed me.

Please take time and attention

to recall such souls

that were healers in your life.

Let's join them,

get in the flow,

and let healing

flow through us.


There's more and it's good!

Healing is wider than curing a malady.

It can mean helping others to grow,

develop, mature, imagine, create.

It  can be evangelizing,

leading, teaching, modeling, enthusing, inspiring.

Whether we are clergy, parents,

educators, a friend, neighbor,

we can really help in proportion to what we

                             "are"

                 Our spiritual lives are

                     "what we are."

They "are" the engine that powers us,

and empowers others through us.

Our spiritual lives are our first priority.

That's where we get Real,

and then really can be

 a healer for others.



So, let's develop every competency we can, for sure.

Let's notice those

all around us that wait,

that long for healing

in so many, many ways:

      - children and teens adrift,

        needing a full time parent,

        role models,

        foster parents,

        a Big Brother/Sister

      - the lonely and isolated elderly

         who need inclusion and respect

      - neighbors, co-workers

        who simply need a good friend

      - students needing a full education,

         not just passing tests,

         but opening to  the vastness of learning

       - the sick needing technique infused with soul

       - twenty somethings trying to sort themselves

         and adult life out

       - all sorts stuck on the surface, money and media driven

In other words, we are they,

longing for help and healing.

As we see and respond let's live the truth that:

               
                  "Please remember

                    it is who you are

                    that heals,

                    not what you know."



Thanks for letting me share this.

Holding you all in

God's Dear Love,

     John Frank


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